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Bar/Bat Mitzvah

This page includes all information relating to having a Bar/Bat Mitzvah at CAA. We hope you find the following information helpful in your planning.  Many of the on-line documents require Adobe Acrobat Reader

 

 

 

 

 

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The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guide contains the policies, philosophy and specifics related to becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah at Congregation Agudas Achim. It is important that all parents of Bar/Bat Mitzvah students read through the entire manual to gain an understanding of our approach to the celebration of becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Subsequently, use this manual as a reference for all aspects of the preparation process. 

All forms information below are appendixes in the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guide.

Questions?

The Who’s Who at CAA form lists all the CAA staff and volunteers responsible for aspects of the B’nai Mitzvah program.  Please feel free to contact any of the people listed, or the B’nai Mitzvah Assistant if you do not know who to contact.

Getting Organized

Refer to the Checklist and Timeline for Bar/Bat Mitzvah for a month by month checklist for becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah at CAA.  The timeline begins 18 months before the B’Nai Mitzvah date and contains references to the appropriate sections of the manual for your use.

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The Mitzvah Project

A Mitzvah Project at Congregation Agudas Achim gives the Bar/Bat Mitzvah an opportunity to do  a certain type of mitzvah, that is, a mitzvah “ben adam l’chavaroh”, “between a person and his or her fellow human beings”.  By requiring such a project from our B’nai Mitzvah candidates, our synagogue shows the importance of mitzvot in living a life according to Jewish values. Details are contained in the Mitzvah Project Guide. Please return the Mitzvah Project Form to the B’Nai Mitzvah Assistant no later than 6 months prior to your Bar/Bat Mitzvah date. For help in deciding on a project, contact the Mitzvah Project Coordinator.  All students should discuss their project with the Mitzvah Project Coordinator prior to completing the form.

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Sponsors and the D’var Torah 

The Sponsor works with each child to study their parsha and prepare the D’var Torah.   Sponsors Manual—this contains information about being a Sponsor at CAA and suggested references for Sponsors and Students working on their D’var Torah.

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Honors and Aliyot

Parents who are assigning honors should read all of the information in the manual regarding honors and aliyot carefully, and discuss any questions they may have with the Rabbi.  You may refer your honorees to this website for instructions on being called for an Aliyah at CAA.

An aliyah is a wonderful way to honor friends, family and/or teachers. We have provided you with an on-line aliyah form and an on-line Mincha aliyah form which you may print out and turn into the CAA office (see timeline for deadlines). We will include the information in our Shabbat program and provide the information to our Gabbai (person helping the with the Torah service). 

Being Called for An Aliyah

For those who are honored with an Aliyah, the following procedure should be followed:

You will be called up by your Hebrew name by the Gabbai (person helping the with the Torah service), who will also say your name in English.

  • Men must wear a tallit and a kippah. Women must wear a head covering, however tallit is optional. Note: tallitot can be found inside the sanctuary door. Kippot and head coverings are in the sanctuary foyer.
  • You will be called to the Aliyah after the person before you has made his/her concluding blessing. When called, go up to the Amud and stand to the Torah reader’s right.
  • At the podium, the reader will point out the place in the Torah where s/he will begin reading. You should take the end of your tallit and touch that place in the Torah with it, then kiss the tallit. A woman not wearing a tallit touches the place in the Torah with the sash used to tie the Torah, then kisses it.
  • If you are called to the Torah with one other person, both of you should follow the above procedure.
  • If you are called with more than one person, only those called by their Hebrew names will kiss the Torah.
  • You should then grasp onto the wooden handles of the Torah with your left hand.
  • You will find the blessings on the sheet called Torah Blessings written in the Hebrew and in English transliteration, on a laminated sheet next to the Torah. You will recite these blessings.
  • If you are not familiar with reciting the blessings before and after the Torah reading, they are given below in Hebrew and in English transliteration along with an audio recording so you may learn the chanting.

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Blessings Before and After Torah Reading

Recorded by Hazzan Neil Blumofe

The Blessing BEFORE reading the Torah (Click for audio)


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Blessing AFTER reading the Torah (Click for audio)


 

 

 

 

 

 

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Guidelines for Double B’nai Mitzvah

Doubling provides an opportunity for two children to share their Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Families in double Bar/Bat Mitzvah are invited to participate in the service in the same general ways as for single Bar/Bat Mitzvah.   While there is no change to our religious service there are some modifications noted above under specific areas described in the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guide and in the Outline of Shabbat Service for Double Bar/Bat Mitzvah.

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CAA Facilities, Event Planning, Caterers

Congregation Agudas Achim, a Conservative synagogue, has established kitchen and facilities usage standards, guidelines and policies for all who will be using our facilities. The observance of Kashrut, Shabbat and Holy Days are the basic tenets of Conservative Judaism.  We therefore maintain kosher meat and kosher dairy kitchens and observe Shabbat / Holy Days in keeping with these principles. The Guidelines for Use of CAA Kitchen and Facilities are prepared in order to facilitate food preparation in the kitchen and the planning of events in the facilities of CAA on Shabbat and Holy Days.

You may choose to use CAA staff or choose your own caterer. Because of the requirements to maintain a kosher kitchen at CAA we have included a list of Approved Caterers who have gone through our certification for use of our kitchen. If your caterer is not on our list please contact our Event Coordinator to see what may be done to certify your caterer.  You may also use the facilities of CAA to hold your own private function such as Shabbat dinner or B’Nai Mitzvah evening reception after Shabbat. You will need to read and sign the Building Usage and Reservation Agreement. Please contact the Event Coordinator about 3 months prior to your event to discuss space availability

At Congregation Agudas Achim, a Bar/Bat Mitzvah is an event shared by the entire community. Parents or other family members customarily host a Kiddush luncheon after the Shabbat Morning Service. In the spirit of sharing simchas with the community, all members of the congregation and guests are invited to the Kiddush Luncheon. Please see our Kiddush Luncheon Pricelist.

Some families choose to host a Friday night dinner at CAA for their out-of-town guests and family. Please contact the Event Coordinator about 3 months prior to your event to discuss space availability.  The same catering options are available as for the Kiddush Luncheon. Please see our Shabbat Dinner Pricelist.

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A Sweet Tradition, Marshmallows

One tradition we have at CAA is tossing marshmallows, that have been wrapped in decorative covering, at the Bar/Bat Mitzvah after they have been blessed by the Rabbi. This symbolizes the sweetness of the occasion and welcome as a Jewish adult. To keep this tradition safe and help keep the sanctuary clean please review the Marshmallow Wrapping Guide.

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